worryOnce you have made a careful decision based on facts, go into action. Don't stop to reconsider. Don't begin to hesitate, worry, and retrace your steps. Don't lose yourself in self-doubting which begets other doubts. Don't keep looking back over your shoulder.
True peace of mind comes from accepting the worst. Psychologically, I think, it means a release of energy.
The secret of being miserable is to have the leisure to bother about whether you are happy or not. Said by George Bernard Shaw
Worry is most apt to ride you ragged not when you are in action, but when the day's work is done. Your imagination can run riot then and bring up all sorts of ridiculous possibilities and magnify each little blunder. At such a time," he continues, "your mind is like a motor operating without its load. It races and threatens to burn out its bearings or even to tear itself to bits. The remedy for worry is to get completely occupied doing something constructive. Said by James L. Mursell
When we are not busy, our minds tend to become a near-vacuum. [...] Nature also rushes in to fill the vacant mind. With what? Usually with emotions. Why? Because emotions of worry, fear, hate, jealousy, and envy are driven by primeval vigour and the dynamic energy of the jungle. Such emotions are so violent that they tend to drive out of our minds all peaceful, nappy thoughts and emotions.
The hours after work - they are the dangerous ones. Just when we're free to enjoy our own leisure, and ought to be happiest - that's when the blue devils of worry attack us. That's when we begin to wonder whether we're getting anywhere in life; whether we're in a rut; whether the boss "meant anything" by that remark he made today; or whether we're getting bald.
Any psychiatrist will tell you that work - keeping busy - is one of the best anesthetics ever known for
sick nerves.
The peace that is found in libraries and laboratories. Said by Pasteur
If a man will devote his time to securing facts in an impartial, objective way, his worries usually evaporate in the light of knowledge."
"Half the worry in the world is caused by people trying to make decisions before they have sufficient knowledge on which to base a decision. For example," he said, "if I have a problem which has to be faced at three o'clock next Tuesday, I refuse even to try to make a decision about it until next Tuesday arrives. In the meantime, I concentrate on getting all the facts that bear on the problem. I don't worry," he said, "I don't agonise over my problem. I don't lose any sleep. I simply concentrate on getting the facts. And by the time Tuesday rolls around, if I've got all the facts, the problem usually solves itself!"